c3ss-xo:

Well, what all relationships had or have in the beginning is ALWAYS the perfect memory for you or it was the best time for you guys. That’s because you guys are just getting to know each other and trying to impress each other with whatever you can and have. All the effort are always being put out in the beginning, that’s always. Because if you don’t..then you can’t have that person right? And as soon as you get that person, you don’t have to worry about trying to get at them right..so that’s when the changes start to happen. They stop trying..they stop making an effort to get to you. But seriously, don’t even worry about that. Just because they stopped trying, doesn’t mean they don’t want to be with you anymore. You can’t be always chasing the past..focus on the present..be happy that, that person is still there with you. Don’t even bother worrying about the future just yet. Just be happy and be content with what you have right now & what’s in front of you and you’re relationship will be just fine. Just as long as you keep showing how much you really love each other. Never stop showing your love for that person, because once you do..that’s when things gets all fucked up and you guys start to drift from one another & possibly lose feelings. Don’t ever let that happen, it’s one thing to say i love you and actually show it. Remember, actions speak louder than words. You guys are probably wondering how i know all of this. Well first, I’m in a relationship so i kinda know how to deal with things & Secondly, i WAS this person before..then realization kicked in & now i’m in the best relationship ever! 

So remember, just be happy with what you have in your life & be glad that they’re with you & cherish every moment you guys have with each other.

- Cess, xo <3

(via buuui)